I have an amazing patient who drops roses off every week (not store-bought but from her garden); there is nothing quite like the fragrances from a spring garden. So, I regularly “Stop and smell the roses.” This common idiom, meaning to relax and take time out of your busy schedule to enjoy or appreciate the beauty of life actually is about practising self-care; read Self-care in the cancer journey.
Along this theme would be Staying healthy during cancer treatment. Thanks Liz for helping us adopt Louise Hay’s saying, “I choose to make the rest of my life the best of my life.”
Our Super Survivor, Julieth Motsomi’s story, There is life after loss and cancer, reminds me of the saying, “The flower that blooms in adversity is the most rare and beautiful of all.”
There is no question the management of early-stage HER2 positive cancers shows us that “Where flowers bloom, so does hope.”
When those cancer-fear-tentacles-creep-in-like-a-vine, remember Luther Burbank’s quote, “Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul.”
I looked at The Addams family of cancers (cancers in the breast that are not breast cancers) and what can I say, “What is a weed? A plant whose virtues have never been discovered.”
When we see the germination of better treatments, smaller surgeries, and more personalised care, I’m reminded of three sayings: “The love of gardening is a seed once sown that never dies”, “To plant a garden is to believe in tomorrow”, and “Gardening is a work of a lifetime: you never finish.”
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Prof Carol-Ann Benn
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The 2025 Big C Survivor’s Guide: How is it diagnosed?
This year we have focused on the diagnostic procedures of various cancers (solid tumours, blood cancers, and childhood cancers) to help you understand what tests will be done, why they are done, and which doctors are likely to do them, as well as the referral pathway. Our hope is that this will outline what you can expect.
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